The market doesn’t know you want your money back

A loss appears on the screen. The next thought is not “What is the context?” It is “I can get that back.” The next position starts getting larger before the next idea gets clearer.

Revenge trading is a useful name for a familiar pattern: asking a new trade to repair the emotional impact of an old one. It is not a particular number of losses, and it is not proof that someone lacks character. The important question is whether the reason for acting has changed.

Notice the new objective

Compare “I am studying this setup” with “I need to finish the day at zero.” The second statement sets a personal financial target, but it does not supply evidence about price. It can also encourage a size change that has nothing to do with the original reasoning.

In a fictional paper example, the plan allowed one unit and the decision lost 10. The next decision uses three units to recover faster. Whatever happens next, record the size increase separately from the result. A favourable outcome would not erase the change in exposure.

Review the loss before explaining it away

Ask whether the loss came from the scenario you had considered, an execution difference, a change to the plan or an assumption you had missed. More than one can be true. “Bad trade” is too broad to be useful; “I entered before recording invalidation” identifies something you can actually examine.

Following a plan does not establish that the plan has an edge. Likewise, one loss does not prove the whole approach is broken. Keep process, strategy evaluation and outcome in separate fields instead of letting one number answer all three questions.

Define a reset before you need one

A learning plan can include a pause after an unplanned action, a review before changing size, or an end to the exercise when attention has gone. Define what your pause is for: recording facts, checking exposure and deciding whether you can explain the next observation independently.

Pichhla trade khatam. Agla decision naya hai.

There is no universal cooling-off duration in this article. Nor does a break make a financial product suitable for you. The aim is to stop treating recovery of a past amount as a reason for the next action.

A five-line review

• What did I expect before the decision?
• What actually happened?
• What did I change, if anything?
• What am I feeling an urge to do now?
• Could I explain the next idea without mentioning this loss?

Start with historical or paper observations in the trade journal. Review wins with the same care: a winning trade still needs a review.

Further reading

CME Group: risk management and a trade plan.

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